Does Taking Care Of Others Leave You Feeling Exhausted, Lonely, And On The Verge Of Burnout?

"The only way to avoid being a caregiver in any way is to have no ties with anyone, which usually doesn't happen."

Facts:

More than 40 million people have difficulty taking care of themselves without the assistance of others due to health problems and disabilities.

Another 12 million are unable to attend school or perform any meaningful work and require full-time assistance.

 

Are you taking care of one of them? Will you be in the future? 

 

Imagine for a second, what would you do
in a situation like this...

  • A woman who has recently retired has begun showing early signs of Alzheimer’s disease. Her children live in other states and the care giving responsibilities fall squarely on her husband’s shoulders. As her mental capacity diminishes, her husband’s responsibilities and burdens increase – just at the point when he should be enjoying life.

  • A man recently learned that he has a terminal cancer that will rob him of his ability to care for himself only in a matter of months. At 56 years old, the news is devastating. A prolonged, terminal illness requires much attention and the responsibility for care giving will be shared between his wife and daughter. In the midst of it all, his daughter is expecting a baby that is due in three months and a 3-year old already who constantly demands her attention.


These are only some examples (based on true stories) of people who require caregiver services, but it shows the enormity and far-reaching implications of the problem. 


Things Happen Fast ...

You Have To Act Fast Also!


Recipients of caregiver services did not ask for their situation but they find themselves in desperate need of help from one day to another.

Their lives are disrupted and now the lives of their spouses, children, siblings, and friends will be disrupted also.

 

What can happen if you are NOT well prepared ?

Role reversals – Your ailing loved one was once someone else to you – whether it was a friend, spouse or parent. It can be hard to separate the "what once was" with the "what is now". Indeed, it is tough on both parties when roles are switched so it can cause confusion and identity issues.

Perceived loss of control – Let's face it … care giving can throw your life for a loop. All of a sudden there are extra demands on your time, money and even physical abilities. Everything typically happens all at once, making it seems as if you have no control over the situation.

Too demanding – Caregivers are often hard on themselves because they do not feel they are doing all that they can. If you are a caregiver, chances are that you to may feel like you have too much responsibility.

Shortened Life - Recent scientific study results have proven that being a caregiver and experiencing high levels of mental or emotional stress is a risk factor for earlier death

and so on...


Preparation Can Save Lives And a Lot of Trouble!

Dear Friend,

While it can be rewarding, care giving requires tremendous emotional, physical and spiritual stamina. That's why I created "Today's Caregivers Guide" to offer care for the caregiver.

The good news is that we're living longer than ever before. Medical Science and technology can now prolong the lives of millions of Americans who suffer from a variety of diseases and ailments. It's not bad news that many of these people need constant care but it is a reality that millions of Americans face each year.

Medical Science and technology simply can't find a way to match the loving care and companionship that only a family member or trusted friend can provide. That's up to us to provide and many of us have already been providing that level of care for years. It makes sense then to get prepared.

Wouldn't it be a tremendous relief to discover you're not alone; that there are resources to turn to and specific things you can do to make this journey easier?

Read on to discover how to make care giving easier on you as well as on the recipient...


Caregivers Fulfill Many Different Roles.
They Must Be...

• Medical coordinators
• Financial planners
• Housekeepers
• Personal assistants
• Cooks
• Shoppers
• Home maintenance personnel
• Home managers
• Triage specialists
• Valets
• Chauffeurs
• Advocates for care
• Medical equipment operators
• Personal "nurses" and "nursing aides"

Could you handle all of that alone?

Take a break and prop your feet up! Help is on the way!

No one person can do it all and that includes you! Realize that unless you're taking care of yourself first, you'll be ill equipped to care for another!

One of the most important things you can do as a caregiver is to allow others to help! Today's Caregivers' Guide will help you to manage the challenges unique to care giving!

One of the most serious problems associated with care giving is the strain it puts on family relationships. Everyone wants to do the right thing, but unfortunately, communications often breaks down and feelings get hurt.

This indepth guide will help struggling families work together to find the appropriate solutions to care giving.

 

Caregivers come from all walks of life and many of them have full or part time jobs already. For many, the financial strain of being a caregiver adds strain to other areas of their life but they do what they do because they feel they must. Order today to do what you can to ease the over burdened shoulders of a caregiver that you know.

Maybe you're not a caregiver yourself but you may be a friend of one. You'd like to help but you aren't sure what to do. Today's Caregivers' Guide will give you all of the ideas you need to help ease your friend's burden.

Perhaps you never planned on signing up to be a caregiver but circumstances beyond your control forced you to anyway. Don't suffer in silence and above all, don't sacrifice your own health! There are ways to ease your burden!

Who cares for the Caregiver? I do!

Today's Caregivers Guide: A Guide for the Preparation of the inevitable is a nuts and bolts guide that will help prepare you for the long road ahead.

You will learn all the proven techniques required to become an effective, stress less, well prepared, and well informed caregiver.


"If you are NOT Mother Teresa, then this must have guide is for you!
"

 

 

This guide addresses situations and circumstances you might not have considered but which could very soon become a part of your everyday life!

 

 

 

Look inside to see how easily YOU can master the skills of a fearless caregiver!

Today's Caregivers' Guide covers some of the following:

Siblings may have a hard time working together during this time. Here are some ways siblings can communicate with each other without anyone getting their feelings hurt. (page 19)
Often, Caregivers are thrust into the care giving role with little, if any, advanced warning. Learn how to prepare for the days, weeks, and months ahead and how you can organize your new routine to make things easier for everyone concerned. (page 24)
Don't forget about entertainment! Both the caregiver and the recipient can benefit from various forms of entertainment even when disease is present. My guide covers some ideas. (page 26)
Caregivers need all the help they can get! Here are some of the top ten tips Caregivers culled from the experts! (page 27)
Working and Care giving? See page 30 for coping strategies!
Other family members may not realize that their roles may also need to shift while you're giving care to another. Here are some specific ways other family members can help! (page 32)

Keep your home and family intact! Try these easy to implement strategies to communicate with other family members while you're care giving! (page 32)

Are you the friend of a caregiver? Here's what you can do to help! (page 33)

AND MUCH, MUCH, MUCH MORE!!!

Read an excerpt from the book:

Family dynamics impacted

One thing to note about care giving is that it really has no defined period. It can be for months or it can last for years. It can be part-time or it can be full-time. It can require intensive services or minimal services. The level and amount of caregiver services varies from one person to another.

The level required changes from time to time also. As a person transitions through various stages of a disease, so does the need for services. The level of need constantly changes and as the level changes, so do moods, abilities, and capacity of the caregiver.

As a disease progresses and worsens, family dynamics often become difficult and change drastically. People compromise their lives and see no end in sight. It is a time of great sadness while the sacrifices are being made. However, more importantly, it is a long-term time of grieving and sadness watching a loved one’s life being splintered more and more each day.

The family dynamics often suffer most as family members handle it with varying degrees of acceptance. Some family members have described it as ‘mourning over and over again’ with each state of decline.
But regardless of the level, the strain on the caregiver(s) is enormous. The support they need as ‘givers’ is usually never recognized until it’s too late.

[...]

Here is another excerpt:

Battling depression, stress, and anxiety

Caregivers naturally bounce between feelings of personal fulfillment and depression, stress, and anxiety when care giving. They are caregivers for different reasons. But they all eventually experience some level of depression or stress in their daily lives. Many caregivers feel overwhelmed with their responsibilities but they can’t find the strength to reach out for help.

Depression and stress can negatively change the family dynamics. Under pressure, caregivers may say and do things they normally would not say or do. Feelings of sadness, isolation, and anxiety can become crippling to the caregiver.

Helping them to recognize this and to manage it is an important part of family and personal relationships. Friends and family can offer much support to a caregiver and can help identify a problem if they are experiencing stress, depression, and anxiety. Diffusing these situations can make the issues much easier to handle in the long term and can take a tremendous burden off of the caregiver.

What you can do to help:

[...]

 

The Top Reasons Why You Should Have This Guide

The primary benefits you will reap:

Strengthened relationship with the recipient of care
Stronger bonds with family members
Enjoyment of spending time with someone who needs help
Improved feeling of self-esteem and confidence
Happiness derived from the gratitude expressed by family and friends
Satisfaction with the high level of care being offered to the recipient
Greater appreciation for the simple things in life
Better understanding of what is important in life
Appreciation of time spent with recipients and family members
Improved spiritual well-being
Gratification from providing support and care to someone else
Greater enjoyment from life and life’s experiences
Enhanced meaning of life

 

Other People's Opinions

 

 

Care giving usually doesn't happen gradually. Families are often thrust into the situation because of a crisis, without any experience on how to manage the overwhelming stress, responsibilities, legalities, and medical aspects. Stephen has done an excellent job guiding the reader through the maze. Very easy to read, motivating, empowering, and highly recommended!

Melissa Dinkins

 

My parents are both currently caring for their parents. I bought this book for them because it hit on every issue that my parents are going through. This book is supportive and provides practical information for those facing many difficult situations. The anecdotes used in this book seemed like they came directly from my family's experience. I would highly recommend this book to others.

Naomi Dews

 

So many caregivers begin knowing nothing of how the system works and what to expect. It can be so frightening trying to figure it all out and find the right places to ask for help. This book answers many of these questions and helps with your understanding of the caregiver process. Which I can knowingy tell you can be a very rewarding but thankless job at times. I'm so happy to found this book. Thank you!

Frank Estes

 

It is about time that someone tackled the issues that caregivers face. It can often be a lonely and confusing time. I was a caregiver for my mother a few years ago and looked everywhere for a book like this. I needed something to walk me through all of the things I didn't understand. This is a well-crafted, easy to read and understand book that all caregivers should read. I wish it had been available five years ago! I recommend it highly.

Jennifer Taylor

 

This book reinforced many things I've known, but needed to hear. It also pointed me to some great resources that I'd have never known existed. I recommend it for everyone in a care giving role, whether the active day-to-day caregiver or a caregiver who lives a long distance away. It is written in short chapters or articles -that's easy to pick up in a spare moment. I can honestly recommend it.

Korey Edwards

 

Thank you Caregivers-guide.com!

I stumbled across your website a few weeks ago and decided to give your book a try. As a new care giver for my elderly father, I found the information you provided very helpful. The primary area that you touched on that had the biggest impact on me was the feelings from other siblings. I hadn’t really taken into consideration that there may be jealousy issues from others due to my care taking of my dad. Now, I realize that I need my siblings help and I need to keep them updated on a regular basis as to how my dad is holding up. Once I began to apply some of the details in your book to my situation, I have seen my sister’s attitude change for the better. I fully endorse the ‘Today's Caregivers' Guide” as an easy to understand practical guide for care giving.

Sandra Hayes

 

 
 

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Average Caregivers lose $650,000 USD during the course of a family care giving “career” (according to the National Alliance for Caregivers, family Caregivers suffer a financial loss equal to more than $650K in lost wages, pensions and Social Security benefits over their lifetimes)

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Now imagine how much it worth to you if it saves even a little portion of the $650K…

Not to mention the loss in your health, freedom, well-being, relationships, and a lot of trouble you will experience without it...

 

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P.P.S. Remember, this book isn't just for caregivers; it's about them and how others can lend a helping hand. Whether you are a caregiver or know one, this guide is for you!

 

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